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About gypsy04

Islander first. American second. Certified Life Coach. Author, and aspiring Philanthropist. Afflicted with a serious case of wanderlust. Laughter is my medicine. Trailblazer. Prefers quiet times. Favorite quote: "Education is the ability to listen to almost anything, without losing your temper or self-confidence" Robert Frost

Maximize Your Potential In The New Year. Tips And Strategies

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Welcome to the new year!

As we turn the page on the previous year and look ahead to what’s to come, it’s natural to feel excited and motivated to make the most of the next 365 days. Whether you’re looking to set new goals, start a new hobby, or make positive changes in your life, there are plenty of ways to make the most of the new year.

Here are some tips for making the most of the new year:

  • Set achievable goals: One of the most common New Year’s resolutions is to set goals for the year ahead. Whether you want to lose weight, save money, or learn a new skill, it’s important to set goals that are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART). This will help you stay on track and make progress towards your goals.
  • Create a plan: Once you’ve identified your goals, it’s important to create a plan for achieving them. This might involve setting smaller, achievable milestones, creating a budget, or finding a support system to help you stay motivated.
  • Get organized: Whether it’s your closet, your desk, or your schedule, taking the time to get organized can help you feel more in control and better able to manage your time and resources.
  • Prioritize self-care: Taking care of yourself is crucial for your overall well-being. Make sure to carve out time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with loved ones. On Christmas Day, I started  ambientmusiclogy  a You Tube Channel to help you relax and meditate. Subscribe for new content each week.
  • Learn something new: Whether it’s a new language, hobby, new skill, learning something new can be a great way to keep your mind sharp and stay engaged in the world around you.
  • Volunteer or give back: Giving back to your community or to a cause you care about can be a rewarding and meaningful. Look for opportunities to volunteer or get involved in a charitable organization that aligns with your values.
  • Explore new places: Travel can be a great way to broaden your horizons and have new experiences. Whether you’re taking a weekend getaway or a longer trip, make a point to visit somewhere new and explore all it has to offer.
  • Surround yourself with positive influences: Your social network can have a big impact on your well-being and happiness. Stay close to people who support and inspire you. Spend less time with those who drain your energy.
  • Practice gratitude: Focusing on the things you are grateful for can help you cultivate a positive outlook and find joy in the everyday. Keep a gratitude journal or share your blessings with friends and family.
  • Reflect on your progress: As you make your way through the year, it’s important to take the time to reflect on your progress and adjust your goals as needed. Celebrate your accomplishments and don’t be too hard on yourself if you fall short of your goals. Remember that growth and progress often come in small steps, and that it’s important to be kind to yourself along the way.

With these tips in mind, you are well on your way to making the most of the new year. Here’s to a happy, healthy, and fulfilling year ahead!

What are your thoughts on these tips? Will you be implementing any or all of the strategies? Sound off below.

Every day is a new chapter:)

To Your Success,
Juan 

    A Message From The Past: A Letter To My Future Self

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    Have you ever written a letter to yourself at the start of a New Year? Better yet, have you ever shared it with a total stranger? No? Me either. Until now. Feel free to share snippets from your own letter below to inspire others

    Dear Future Me,

    As I sit here on the first day of the new year, I am so darn excited about all the possibilities the next 365 days hold. I don’t know exactly what they are, and frankly, I don’t need to. There are no growth opportunities in knowing! I do, however, have a few hopes and aspirations that I’d like to share with you.

    First and foremost, I hope that this time next year,  you are incredibly happy and healthy, and you have found a sense of balance and contentment in your life,  surrounded by people who love and support you.

    We are just getting started here. When it comes to career, I hope you have found a job or profession that you are passionate about. One that allows you to make a positive impact in the world. You have taken the time to learn new skills and challenge yourself. You have found a way to achieve your goals and dreams. As a matter of fact  by this time next year, you should no longer working for anyone else.

    You have carved out more time to pursue your hobbies and interests. Your wanderlust nature has been fed and watered in new and distant lands. You have topped the six countries you visited in 2022

    One of my biggest aspirations for the year ahead is to become more physically fit and healthy. I know this will require discipline and commitment, but I am determined to make it a priority. You planned to join a new gym, as the old one just wasn’t cutting it. You once loved spinning. This time next year, you have taken more classes than you can remember, and your new body is hard evidence.  

    Another goal is to be more present and mindful in my daily life. I want to make a conscious effort to be more present with my loved ones, to enjoy each moment as it comes, and to live in the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. I hope that you have found a way to cultivate this mindset and that it brings you greater happiness and contentment. You new venture ambientmusiclogy has helped so many people take necessary time  to practice meditation,  self care and mindfulness. Your new channel will grow and explode beyond your wildest dreams.

    You are single by choice. However, if your person comes along, It should be a love unlike any other, because you deserve it. If you are still single, bear in mind, the greatest love story is the one you have with yourself. 

    Finally, I hope that you have found a way to give back and make a positive impact in the world. Whether it’s through volunteering, donating to a cause you believe in, or simply being kind and compassionate towards others, I hope that you have found a way to make a difference in the lives of those around you.

    I know that the road ahead will not always be easy, but I believe in you and I know that you have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way. Here’s to an amazing year ahead!

    Finally, I hope that you have learned to be kind to yourself and to others, and that you have found a way to live a fulfilling and meaningful life.

    HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!

    Sincerely, 
    Juan W

    Overcoming Post Holiday Bues

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    The holidays are often a whirlwind of activity and emotion involving a busy schedule of shopping, school programs and get-togethers with friends and family. If you experience an emotional disappointment when the holidays pass, there are many things you can do to lift your mood and make it through the emotional let-down after the holidays. Taking some quality time for yourself during this period can lighten your mood immensely and ignite your excitement about the year ahead.

    These strategies will boost your spirits and get your New Year off to a great start:

    1. Re-connect with an old friend. There’s something so wonderful about making that call you’ve wanted to make. Hearing your friend’s voice again will bring great joy to your heart. It might be a friend from the old neighborhood, a former college roommate or a past co-worker you were once great friends with.
    2. Take advantage of the extra time you now have for yourself. Since the holiday hullabaloo is over, you have some time to reflect. What do you like about your life? What would you like to change?
    3. Think about small goals you’d like to accomplish. Do you want to finally get that hall closet cleaned out? Maybe you can now complete that special project your boss has wanted you to do.

    It’s a good time to make a list of all those little tasks you want to get done. Having the list will help you concentrate on your goals. Plus, it’s wonderful to draw a line through an achieved goal.

    1. Focus on you for a change. Now is the time to hone in on personal desires and goals. Perhaps you want to exercise more or spend more quality time with your children. Ponder how you might go about making the changes you seek. Think of taking little steps toward your big goals.
    2. Pursue an interest. We’ve all got those interests we hope to “get to” someday. Since you’ve got some down time now, why not go for it? Delve in to that subject you’ve been curious about or start the photography class you’ve longed to take.

    If you’re not sure what you’re interested in, do some research. Visit your local library, browse some magazines or look in the newspaper. You’ll most likely find a couple of topics or activities you’d like to learn more about.

    1. Have a dinner party. You’ll have plenty of time to plan and prepare for this event with people you really care about. You’ll enjoy yourself and your mood will lift.
    2. Renew and refresh your surroundings. Do you feel like re-arranging the furniture in a room or two? Maybe you want to paint the walls or make new curtains. Re-decorating your surroundings is a wonderful way to go in to a new year and banish the holiday blues at the same time.

    Re-focusing on your surroundings and thinking about any changes you want to make will help you de-focus from the doldrums. Taking some quality time for yourself during this period can lighten your mood immensely and ignite your excitement about the year ahead.

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    HAPPY NEW YEAR!

    To Your Success,
    Juan

    Returning The Gift of Holiday Weight Hain

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    Returning the gift of holiday weight gain can be a true challenge. This is why it’s important to avoid (if you can) getting a holiday weight package in the first place! There’s no benefit to approaching the New Year with a lot of extra weight that you have to lug around all year.

    However, if you do gain a little weight, it’s a good idea to know and understand the measures that you can take to eliminate those extra pounds, before they become a problem. You can learn all about returning the gift of holiday weight gain in the tips below

    Get Moving
    One of the best ways that you can maintain your current weight through the holidays, or shed those extra pounds from your holiday blessing, is to exercise! You should strive to get at least four hours of exercise weekly. This may sound like a lot, but there are many exciting physical activities that will enable you to lose those unwanted pounds.

    You can take a walk around the block to savor one last look at those Christmas decorations, go swimming in an indoor heated pool, or warm up in an aerobics or dance class. Go up and down the stairs a few times. When you’re done, your heart will surely be pumping! Learn some basic yoga moves and start or end your day with some deep stretching and relaxation.

    Make Healthy Food Choices
    During the holidays, fresh fruit assortments are a big hit and make eating healthy much easier. A good goal would be to eat five servings of fruits every day. When you snack on fruit, you’ll avoid the urge to sink your teeth into that hot apple pie and those other tempting desserts that tend to line tables and countertops when the holidays roll around.

    In addition to fruits assortments, vegetable trays are a great, healthy choice as well.
    With fresh fruits and vegetables, not only will you be able to eat plenty of foods that taste great, but you’ll also get your daily dose of essential nutrients and vitamins that assist in the many functions of the body.

    It would be unreasonable to expect you to avoid all of the delightful foods that tempt you during the holidays. In fact, you shouldn’t deprive yourself at all! The key is to enjoy these sweet desserts in moderation. Fill up on the healthy fruits and vegetables first and then ask for a small serving of pie. You’ll get a sweet taste without the desire to devour the entire pie.

    Try to limit yourself to just one treat a day. Setting limits will allow you to enjoy all those
    seasonal foods that you love without causing holiday weight gain. Share your cookies and treats with those at your office, church, or homeless shelter. If the sweets tempt you too much at home, share them with others.

    Party Etiquette
    Prepare yourself for social gatherings, family dinners, and festive holiday parties. The foods and beverages that you find at these parties are generally loaded with fat and other unhealthy ingredients. Eat a healthy meal before going to holiday parties. If you’re not hungry, you’ll indulge in fewer unhealthy foods that can add pounds. 

    Focus on enjoying the company rather than on the food. Engaging in conversation will allow you to forget (momentarily!) about the food buffet. During the holidays we all want to indulge in traditional holiday treats. Being conscious of portion control will help you avoid gaining a significant amount of weight this holiday season.

    Returning the gift of holiday weight gain is much easier when it does not involve too many pounds. Using these tips will keep the weight gain to a minimum and help you to shed those few extra pounds that do materialize.

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    To Your Success,
    Juan

    Classic Holiday Movies and TV Specials: 13 Lessons

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    In two days, will you and your loved ones gather around the television after Christmas dinner, to watch your favorite movies? Which ones are on your list? This is such a beautiful tradition! This year I invite your to look for the lessons being taught. One of my favorites is How The Grinch Stole Christmas. After doing research for this post, I learned a few things, and hope you do to!

    Holiday movies and TV specials can teach us how to live better and enjoy more happiness year round. These are some of the most important life lessons from a few old favorites and some other works that may be less well kno

    “How the Grinch Stole Christmas”

      1. Sing joyfully. Before he had his change of heart, singing was what the Grinch liked least of all. Surround yourself with the music of the season and sing along.
      2. Resist commercial pressures. The Grinch learned that Christmas doesn’t come from a store. Focus on the true meaning of the holidays by sharing time with loved ones and looking for ways to make others happy.
      3. Let your heart grow bigger. Dr. Seuss suspected the Grinch suffered from a heart two sizes too small. As soon as it grew three sizes larger he brought back the toys he stole, put everything right and got to love his new friends in Whom

    “It’s a Wonderful Life”:

    1. Recognize that one person can make a difference. While the challenges around us can seem overwhelming sometimes, we all create our own environment. George Bailey leads a modest life, but he prevents good old Bedford Falls from turning into a sleazy Pottersville.
    2. Celebrate the potential to create better outcomes. With all the talk about “toxic” people, we may sometimes overlook the fact that we all possess a mix of constructive and destructive qualities. By appealing to the good in people, George helps them to succeed in every walk of life.
    3. Welcome help from others. As powerful as George is, he still needs Clarence, the angel, to help him through a rough night. Regardless of whatever weaknesses you possess, you can still serve as somebody’s angel if you’re willing to reach out.

    “A Christmas Carol”:

    1. Teach old dogs new tricks. We may sometimes feel that our habits are too ingrained to change. Scrooge proves that a life of stinginess can give way to one of kindness even late in life.
    2. Pay attention to your dreams. We spend about one-third of our life sleeping. Put that time to good use by listening to what your dreams may be trying to tell you.
    3. Come to terms with your past. Recognize the unhealthy patterns that get between you and greater happiness. Scrooge’s greed cost him his first love. You may need to become more generous to transform your own relationships.
    4. Become more resilient. The Cratchit family remains cheerful in spite of their poverty. Tiny Tim appreciates his blessings even though he’s poor and crippled. If we bear our hardships with patience, we can protect our peace of mind.

    Other Holiday Programs and Movies:

    1. Focus on others. Steven Spielberg’s cartoon, “Pinky and the Brain,” is about more than a laboratory mouse trying to take over the world. The friendship between the two mice shines through when Pinky writes to Santa saying it’s okay to forget about him and just give Brain what he wants.
    2. Work for world peace. The true story of the 1914 Christmas truce is captured in “Joyeux Noel.” If German, French and Scottish troops can call a ceasefire on one Christmas Eve, maybe we can all be more peaceful.
    3. Believe in Santa Claus. “Miracle on 34th Street” looks like it was ahead of its time in questioning consumerism. It’s also timeless in affirming the importance of faith. Plus, it may offer the best legal argument for believing in Santa Claus…

    Many of us look forward to watching our favorite holiday movies and specials each year. It’s a great way to revisit their inspiring messages and share them with our children. 

    Share this article with your friends on social media, and spread some Christmas cheer!

    To Your Success,
    Juan



     

    How To Provide A Bright Holiday For Children With Special Needs

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    Children love the holidays. They’re excited about the gifts they’ll get, and they enjoy seeing
    family members and friends that they might not otherwise see very often at all. For children with special needs, celebrating the holidays can be harder. They often have limitations that are different than children around them.

    To help make their holidays brighter, you can be the spark that helps warm their
    hearts! Giving your time to these kids will bring a memorable holiday to both of you.
    Try these tips to bring more holiday cheer to children with special needs:

    1. Decide how much time you have to volunteer. Once you know how much time
    you’re willing to give, for how long, and on what days, you’ll be better prepared to
    offer what you have to companies, and organizations that help children who have
    special needs.

    2. Determine which charities and businesses you want to volunteer with. You
    may want to just go where the greatest need is, but you may also have a special
    preference for one or more organizations for whatever reason. No matter where you
    go, your joy and enthusiasm will be an asset to children who need your love
    and support over the holidays.

    3. Talk to the charities you want to help. Find out what they really need from you.
    Most of them need money, but your time and talents will also make a difference. Tell
    them what you can do and see if they can find ways for you to help. Almost any
    organization that helps children with special needs will take you.

    4. Pay attention to what the children need. Once you’re working with the children,
    take time to listen and watch. See what they want and need, instead of what you want to give them. Toys are great, but they might just want to play a game or have someone who will listen to them. What their special needs are will affect that.

    5. Understand that not all children will take to you. Some people just like certain
    people better than others. Don’t take it personally if you don’t bond with a child you’re
    trying to help. Perhaps there are other children you can help, and someone else will
    be a better fit for the child you don’t connect with. There are always options to help
    others if you look.

    6. Take time for yourself, too. Helping children with special needs is a wonderful
    thing, but you need to take care of yourself so you can continue to help them. Ensure
    you relax and enjoy your downtime. Don’t try to do too much or you may get
    rundown and feel sluggish. Stay happy and rested, so you can be more helpful.

    All children have a desire to be loved. It’s understandable if you find it difficult at times to work with children who have special needs. If you find that you’re struggling with your patience, take a little break and get some perspective on your life and theirs. That way, you can do more for them.

    Keep in mind that the best and most important thing you can give these children
    is your time and love. They can take great joy from just being able to have someone
    there. Even if you feel awkward and unsure about how to act, just be yourself. Children can
    sense when you’re sincere, so just give them the love that’s in your heart. You’ll be glad you did!

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    To Your Success,
    Juan

    Remembering And Celebrating A Lost Loved One During The Holidays

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    Remembering your loved ones during the holidays can be difficult. Celebrating their life during the holidays can be a great way to honor them. Make this holiday season extra special by celebrating your loved ones. Start celebrating and remember your loved ones today!

    The great memories you had can be a place to start. Pictures are always good, too. They may make you feel a bit sad, but there are usually times in that sadness where you’ll find yourself smiling over something silly or touching that you remembered. Incorporating that loving feeling into your holidays can help you to heal.

    Let’s go!

    Let Your Faith Guide You
    No matter what your religious faith, you can use prayer and spiritual beliefs to help you get through trying or lonely times. Sometimes, those feelings are magnified at special times like holidays, and more time to pray or meditate is needed. Don’t be afraid to take the time you need for prayer.  Remind yourself the struggles they faced here in their lifetime are no more. There is comfort in those thoughts.

    Dwell on the Happy Times
    Of course you miss your loved one, but you also have the joy of having known that person for a period of time. Cherish what you had. When the holidays come around and you the feelings of sadness begin to creep in, think about all the times you did have. What would your loved one want you to remember about him or her?

    Focus your energy on being joyful for what was. Whether you had your loved one a long period of time or a short one, you had love in your life for that time. That’s a very precious gift. Elevate the value of that gift by savoring the happy moments. Remember the good times. Everyone has memories of their loved ones that make them smile or that they re-live again and again. 

    Honor their memory
    1.Decorate in their favorite colors.
    2. Put up photos of them around the house.
    3. Make their favorite holiday dish.
    4. Tell stories about them to your friends and family.
    5. Light a candle in their memory on Christmas Eve or Hanukkah.
    6. Donate to a charity in their name.
    7. Volunteer your time in their honor.

    Mourning is part of the healing process, but remember to celebrate, too. Everyone does things differently when it comes to how they want to show their love for someone who has gone on before them. Focus on a celebration that feels right to you. No matter what it is, if it’s right for you, then it’s perfect for the occasion. 

    Because everyone is different, some people might question what you’re doing or why. That’s okay. Honor your loved one and celebrate their life in a way that brings you joy and peace this holiday.This holiday season, celebrate the life of your loved ones who have passed away. Remember them fondly and honor their memory by spending time with family, friends and loved ones. sharing stories, laughter and love. This is a time to cherish

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    Happy Holidays. To Your Success,
    Juan

    A Guide to Living Sober, Happy Holiday Season

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    The holiday season is a time for family, friends, and fun. But for many people, it’s also a time of stress and anxiety. If you’re in recovery from alcoholism or drug addiction

    You may look forward to decorating the tree and baking sugar cookies. Then, you remember crowded shopping malls and family dinners with distant relatives asking you about your childbearing plans. You may also wonder how you’ll handle annual rituals that usually involve rum punch and champagne.

    Learn how to celebrate the holidays without risking your recovery.  Follow these tips for staying peaceful and sober, starting with Thanksgiving and continuing into the New Year.

    Minimizing Holiday Stress:

    1. Anticipate triggers. Plan ahead for situations that may tempt you to drink. You’re more likely to make sound decisions if you avoid getting caught by surprise. Be prepared for social pressure and strong emotions.
    2. Watch your budget. Marathon shopping and credit card bills can cause financial strain. Figure out how much you can spend on entertaining, and gifts. Live within your limits.
    3. Enjoy nature. Set aside time for outdoor fun like ice skating and sledding. Go for a brisk walk and admire the snow.
    4. Work out. Physical activity is a great way to relax and burn off extra calories. Give yourself an early present of online fitness classes.
    5. Sleep well. You’re calmer and more resilient when your mind and body get adequate sleep. Stick to your regular bedtime. Turn off the TV and other devices at least 2 hours before retiring.
    6. Eat healthy. Proper nutrition provides energy and a sense of overall wellness. Plan your meals and snacks, so you get plenty of vegetables, fruits, whole grains, healthy fats, and lean protein. If you love holiday treats like candy and pie, limit the serving sizes.
    7. Take a trip. A change of scenery might help. Treat yourself to a holiday vacation that will allow you to feel pampered and avoid situations that may be too demanding at this stage in your recovery.
    8. Attend extra meetings. If programs like AA have become part of your regular routine, check the calendar to find additional meetings and events to help you through the holiday season. 

    Managing Holiday Socializing:

    1. Create new traditions. Be creative. Invent new holiday activities if your old ones revolved around drinking. Pancake breakfast instead of a boozy brunch. Replace bar hopping with volunteer work.
    2. Be selective. A lighter schedule may help you feel more balanced. Pick the parties and events that are the highest priorities for you. Graciously turn down invitations to gatherings that could be too awkward.
    3. Snack wisely. An empty stomach can sabotage your willpower. Eat some bread and cheese or a handful of nuts before going out for the evening.
    4. Stay hydrated. There are plenty of nonalcoholic beverages you can still enjoy. In addition to plain water or juice, explore recipes for fancy mocktails with ingredients like star anise, muddled berries, and cinnamon.
    5. Help out. Shifting your attention to others is a great way to distract yourself from alcohol cravings or any feelings of self-consciousness. 
    6. Leave early. Alcohol often flows more freely later in the night. If you prefer a quieter experience, be among the first to arrive and depart.

    Be merry and sober this holiday season. The occasions you celebrate without alcohol may wind up being more meaningful and memorable. Next up, getting through the holidays, after losing a loved one.

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    To Your Success,
    Juan

     

    Three Habits That Happy People Practice Every Holiday Season

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    So far, tips have been shared to help battle stress, now it’s time to take a deep dive into the most troubling concerns. Battling and overcoming stress during the holidays can be a challenge to anyone. Overcommitting, gift buying, and carrying on traditions, are three of the most stressful areas that can ruin a cheerful season

    There are a number of things that can lead to this type of stress: family gatherings, coping with loss, busy stores, long lines, gift buying, conflicts, add to this list.  Last month I shared useful post regarding handling conflicts during gatherings.  Later this month, I will address handling loss. You may also have high expectations that add to the stress of your holiday season.

    Long gone are the days in which the season was highly anticipated and there was a sense of magic in the air. As an adult, you may find the season to be more stressful than joyous. Unfortunately, these days, you may even consider holiday stress as a necessary holiday tradition! Here are some methods you can use to battle and overcome stress during the holidays

    1. Are you overcommitted? The holidays normally come with many social gatherings that most of us feel we must attend. The fact is that you don’t have to go to every event you’re invited to. Saying “no thank you” to some of the invitations will free up more time for yourself! It’s important to remember and enjoy the spirit of the holidays.

    If it takes saying “no” to preserve some of your sanity, go for it! Others will be more understanding than you give them credit for. Don’t become so burdened that you secretly wish for the season to pass quickly. Take time to be by yourself. Whether you take a yoga class or a bubble bath, allow yourself to do something enjoyable without worrying about the holiday stress.

    2. Carrying on traditions. Growing up, we may have seen our mothers cook a full course Christmas dinner. Perhaps it was routine to host a lavish holiday party. Maybe your family baked hundreds of Christmas cookies to give to friends and relatives. Tradition is good but don’t allow yourself to become so wrapped up in tradition that it consumes you. 

    If you find the routine you normally follow for the pure and simple sake of tradition is weighing on you and resulting in more stress than you can deal with, break away from it! You will be happier. Rather than living up to the expectations of years past, start your own, easy-going traditions. Instead of throwing a lavish party, have fewer friends over for tea and cookies. Allow other family members to bring side dishes to the holiday meal rather than cooking it all yourself.

    3. Finding the perfect gift. There’s too much pressure to purchase the perfect gift for each person that it takes all the fun out of shopping. Remember, people are generally appreciative for whatever gift they receive. They don’t expect you to go to every corner of the Earth to find them a spectacular gift. Save time and money by skipping the wrapping! Creativity is the main focus.

    You can give gifts that can be used throughout the year. For example, you may give a coupon in a card for a free night of babysitting, one day of yard work, or other special things. Shopping online has made searching for gifts much easier. It might also be more cost effective to buy online because many stores offer special sales or free shipping near the holidays. 

    I hope you agree that these very simple, yet effective habits can help giftyou overcome stress during the holidays. The key is to determine what’s causing your stress so you can eliminate it. In the end, you’ll see that most of the stress you experience is a result of the expectations you impose on yourself. 

    I hope you found these three simple suggestions useful. How will you implement them this year?! Comment below, or share with your overworked and stressed out friend or relative.

    To Your Success,
    Juan

     

      How To Survive Holiday Travel

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      The holidays are a hectic time for many people. Between work, family, and social obligations, it can be hard to find time to relax. If you’re planning on traveling for the holidays, there are a few things you can do to make the process less stressful.

        • Plan holiday travel itineraries in advance
        • Travel during off-peak hours 
        • Start out well rested 
        • Build in extra money to your travel budget in case of emergencies
        • Arrive at the airport or other station early to more easily take care of last minute challenges 
        • Expect to run into snags
        • Pack light and carry on your bag, rather than checking it 
        • Allow extra time to travel from place to place and expect heavy traffic 
        • Send your gifts in advance or take gift cards
        • Limit alcohol and caffeine
        • Pack plenty of healthy snacks that travel well without refrigeration
        • Bring plenty of things to keep the kids happily occupied
        • Make waiting times go faster and regain a happy holiday feeling by meditating
        •  Use portable meditation props, like a favorite image on your smart phone or tablet
        • Plan to arrive at your holiday destination rested and excited to share your holidays with loved ones

      Meditation Tips For Holiday Travel

      • Sit up straight and relax your shoulders
      • Let distracting thoughts dissolve away as you focus on deep breathing
      • Think about your destination and the loved ones you’ll be visiting 
      • Remember that you’re surrounded by people making similar plans – just like you 
      • Once you’re feeling relaxed and happy, let go of the details and enjoy that warm feeling 
      • Imagine wrapping up those good feelings and presenting them to everyone around you 
      • Gradually return your attention to the present moment 
      • Remind yourself of the fellowship you felt while meditating

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      To Your Success,

      Juan