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About gypsy04

Islander first. American second. Certified Life Coach. Author, and aspiring Philanthropist. Afflicted with a serious case of wanderlust. Laughter is my medicine. Trailblazer. Prefers quiet times. Favorite quote: "Education is the ability to listen to almost anything, without losing your temper or self-confidence" Robert Frost

Reaching Your Potential: The Power of Setting and Achieving Smart Goals

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In the last post, we looked at goal setting, which to the casual eye would make it seemed the traditional paper and pen goal setting is outdated. For my readers who refer pen and paper, this post gives you concrete SMART action steps, complete with measurable examples. Let us dive right in.

  1. Specific: “I want to lose 20 pounds in the next six months.”

Action Steps:

  • Determine the specific steps needed to reach this goal, such as exercising for at least 30 minutes a day, cutting out sugary drinks, and eating more fruits and vegetables.
  • Create a meal plan and grocery list that aligns with these steps.
  • Find a workout routine that fits your schedule and interests.
  • Consider enlisting the help of a personal trainer or nutritionist to provide guidance and support.
  1. Measurable: “I want to increase my annual income by 20% in the next year.”

Action Steps:

  • Identify specific steps that can help you increase your income, such as negotiating for a raise, finding a higher paying job, or starting a side hustle.
  • Set specific financial targets for each month to track your progress towards your overall goal.
  • Seek out professional development opportunities to improve your skills and increase your value to potential employers or clients.
  • Network with others in your industry to find potential job or business opportunities.
  1. Attainable: “I want to run a marathon in the next two years.”

Action Steps:

  • Determine your current fitness level and create a training plan that allows you to gradually build up your endurance.
  • Find a local marathon to participate in and sign up for it to create a sense of accountability.
  • Set smaller, achievable goals along the way, such as running a 5K or a half marathon.
  • Consider working with a coach or joining a running group to provide support and guidance as you train.
  1. Relevant: “I want to improve my public speaking skills in order to advance in my career.”

Action Steps:

  • Identify specific areas of public speaking that you want to improve, such as confidence, presentation skills, or clarity of delivery.
  • Seek out opportunities to practice public speaking, such as joining a local toastmasters group or volunteering to give presentations at work.
  • Consider working with a public speaking coach or taking a course to learn new techniques and strategies.
  • Set specific goals for each practice session, such as speaking in front of a group for a certain amount of time or delivering a presentation on a specific topic.
  1. Time-bound: “I want to save $10,000 for a down payment on a house within the next three years.”

Action Steps:

  • Determine how much money you need to save each month to reach your goal within the allotted time frame.
  • Create a budget and stick to it to ensure that you are saving enough money each month.
  • Consider finding ways to increase your income or reduce your expenses in order to reach your saving goals faster.
  • Set specific deadlines for reaching intermediate saving goals, such as $2,000 in six months or $5,000 in a year.

Sometimes we overcomplicate things, which often leads to procrastination. Change takes time, be patient with yourself. Be consistent.  Screenshot each step and go out there and get yours!

Best of luck this year:)

Warmly,
Juan

Welcome To Ambient Musicology

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Ambient music is a genre of music characterized by its atmospheric and relaxing qualities. Think of electronic instruments and soundscapes, often associated with relaxation, meditation, and stress relief. The origins of ambient music can be traced back to the 1970s. Since its inception, ambient music has evolved and diversified, incorporating elements of other genres such as classical, jazz, and world music. Today, ambient music is popular among a wide range of listeners and is often used in settings such as yoga classes, massage therapy, and relaxation therapies. It continues to be a vibrant and evolving genre, with new artists and styles emerging all the time.

On Christmas Day I launched my new venture, a YouTube channel : Ambient Musiclogy. Here you will find a curated selection of ambient tracks that are perfect for relaxation, meditation, and stress relief.  Meditation and Mindfulness practices saved me during the COVID lock down in NYC. I want to share my love of ambient music with you, and anyone who comes across my channel.

Here are few excellent reasons why you should subscribe.

  1. High-quality content: All racks on my channel are carefully selected an. Whether you’re looking for soothing nature sounds, calming instrumental music, or peaceful melodies, you’ll find something that speaks to you.
  2. Regular updates: I’m always adding new music to the channel, so you’ll have a constant stream of new music to enjoy. Long form content is uploaded twice per week, while shorts are done daily.
  3. Variety of genres: Are you a fan of electronic, classical, or acoustic music? Occasionally I might sneak these in. 
  4. Positive impact on mental health: Listening to ambient music has been shown to have a positive impact on mental health. If you are struggling with stress, anxiety, or insomnia, the calming and soothing sounds on my channel, can help you relax and unwind.
  5. Free and convenient access: All of the tracks on my channel are free to stream, and you can access them from anywhere with an internet connection. Whether you’re at home, at work, or on the go, you can enjoy the benefits of ambient music anytime, anywhere.

So if you’re a fan of ambient music or are looking for a way to relax and de-stress, consider subscribing to my YouTube channel. With its high-quality content, regular updates, and personalized playlist options, it’s the perfect place to find music that speaks to you. Here’s to your relaxation and well-being! 

Head over to  Ambient Musiclogy.  PLEASE LIKE | SUBSCRIBE | COMMENT| TURN ON BELL NOTIFICATIONS 

Look forward. to having you! Your support is much appreciated. 

With Thanks,
Juan

 

 

 

 

Seven Surprising Benefits of Trying New Things.

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Trying new things can be intimidating and scary, but it’s also an essential part of life, that is if you want to grow. Whether you’re trying a new hobby, exploring a new place, or stepping out of your comfort zone, the benefits are numerous. Here are just a few reasons why. Which one have you personally experienced?

  1. Personal growth: You learn and grow. Challenged to step outside your comfort zone your horizons are expanded. Whether you’re learning a new skill or exploring a new culture,  your understanding of the world will shift.
  2. Increased confidence: Build confidence in yourself and your abilities. Every time you succeed at something new, you gain confidence and become more comfortable taking on challenges. This increased confidence can carry over into other areas of your life, making you feel more capable and self-assured.
  3. Improved problem-solving skills: Trying new things often involves problem-solving, as you encounter challenges and obstacles. By practicing you become better equipped to handle difficult situations in the future.
  4. Increased creativity: Stimulates your creativity and encourages you to think outside the box. Whether you’re trying an art form, new places, you’ll find it helps spark your creativity, and encourages you to approach things in new and innovative ways.
  5. Meeting new people: Expand your social circle. A new club or taking a class, is a great way to make new friends and connect with others.
  6. Improved mental and physical health: Reduce stress, improve brain function, and boost self-esteem. New form of exercise, or exploring a new hobby, has a range of health benefits.
  7. Increased happiness: Sense of excitement and accomplishment that can boost your happiness levels. The sense of adventure and discovery that comes with trying new things can bring joy and fulfillment.

    In short, trying new things is an essential part of life. It helps you grow as a person, improves your mental and physical health, and brings joy and fulfillment. So don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try something new – you never know what amazing experiences and opportunities might be waiting for you

    Next up, an introduction to my new adventure, Ambient Musicology! 

    Warmly,
    Juan

    Mastering the Masterpiece: The Art of Setting and Achieving Your Goals

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    Goal setting is a crucial aspect of personal and professional development, as it helps individuals define what they want to achieve,  and create a plan to reach those goals. While the basic principles of goal setting have remained the same over time, the way in which people set and work towards their goals has evolved with advances in technology and shifts in societal norms.

    In the past, goal setting often involved writing down specific goals on paper, along with action steps and deadlines for completion. This method of goal setting, known as the SMART criteria, involved setting goals that were Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-bound.

    Today, however, there are many more tools and resources available to help people set and track their goals. Digital goal setting apps and software allow individuals to create, track, and share their goals with others, and provide reminders and progress updates to keep users on track. Apps such as Todoist, Troll, Asana, Evernote, Google Keep, GoalsOnTrack, Habitica etc..both free and paid.

    In addition, social media and online communities have made it easier for people to connect with others who have similar goals, share resources and advice, and provide accountability and motivation.

    One major change in the way that goals are set and pursued today is the increased focus on personal and professional development. In the past, goal setting may have primarily focused on tangible achievements, such as financial success or career advancement. However, today there is a greater emphasis on personal growth, self-improvement, and well-being.

    This shift has led to the rise of popular goal setting techniques such as the “growth mindset,” which emphasizes the importance of continually learning and striving to improve, rather than focusing solely on the end result.

    Overall, while the basic principles of goal setting have remained the same, the way in which goals are set and pursued has evolved with the times. With the availability of technology and a greater focus on personal growth, it has become easier than ever for individuals to set and work towards their goals.

    Did you gain new insights and ways of looking at how you set your goals? If so, share them in the comment box below! Next up, SMART goals outlined. 

    To Your Success,
    Juan

    CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR NEW JOB!

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    So, you’ve been offered a job, congratulations! It’s an exciting time, and it’s natural to want to accept the offer as soon as possible. However, before you say yes, it’s important to consider your salary and benefits and to negotiate if necessary.

    Here are some great tips for negotiating your salary and benefits:

    1. Research the market: Before you start negotiations, it’s important to know what others in your field are earning. Research salary data for your industry and location, and use this information to determine a fair and reasonable salary range for your role.
    2. Consider your value: In addition to market data, it’s important to consider your own value and worth when negotiating your salary. Think about your skills, experience, and accomplishments, and be prepared to communicate how these contribute to your potential as an employee.
    3. Communicate your value: When negotiating your salary, it’s important to be clear and concise about your value and how it aligns with the company’s needs. Use specific examples and data to illustrate your worth, and be prepared to discuss your future goals and how they align with the company’s mission.
    4. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want: It’s natural to feel nervous about negotiating your salary, remember it’s your right to ask for what you feel you deserve. Don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself and to ask for what you want.
    5. Be open to compromise: While it’s important to advocate for yourself, it’s also important to be open to compromise. Consider what the company can offer in terms of salary, benefits, and other perks, and be willing
    6. Don’t just focus on salary: While salary is important, it’s not the only factor to consider when negotiating your compensation. Think about other benefits and perks that may be valuable to you, such as flexible work hours, paid time off, health insurance, retirement benefits, or professional development opportunities.
    7. Don’t accept the first offer: If the company makes an initial offer that you’re not satisfied with, it’s okay to ask for more. Consider counter-offering with a higher salary or additional benefits, and be prepared to explain your rationale.
    8. Know your worth: It’s important to have a sense of your own worth and value when negotiating your salary and benefits. Don’t sell yourself short or accept an offer that doesn’t reflect your skills and experience.
    9. Seek guidance: If you’re unsure about how to approach salary negotiations, consider seeking guidance from a career coach or mentor. They can help you prepare and give you the confidence you need to advocate for yourself.
    10. Trust your instincts: Ultimately, the most important thing is to trust your instincts and to be true to yourself. If an offer doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to turn it down and to keep looking for a job that aligns with your values and goals….

    Which of these tips will you be implanting in your next job offer? Have you used any in the past, how did it turn out? Let men know in the comment section!

    You will be well-prepared to negotiate your salary and benefits and to secure a fair and rewarding compensation package. Remember to stay confident, be clear and concise, and don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself. Good luck!

    To your Success,
    Juan

    Embrace A New Beginning: Strategies for Launching a New Career in the New Year

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    If you’re looking for a new job or considering a career change, January is a great time to start the search. With the new year comes new opportunities and a fresh start, and with the right strategies and mindset, you can set yourself up for success in your job search.

    Here are some tips for finding the right job and making a successful transition in the new year:

    1. Define your career goals: Before you start your job search, it’s important to have a clear understanding of what you’re looking for. Take the time to think about your strengths, skills, interests, and consider what type of job or industry aligns with your goals.
    2. Update your resume and LinkedIn profile: Once you know what you’re looking for, it’s time to highlight your relevant skills and experience. Make sure to tailor your resume and profile to each job or industry you’re interested in. Consider seeking feedback from a career coach or mentor to ensure they are as strong as possible.
    3. Network, network, network: Consider joining industry groups or associations, attending events and conferences, or connecting with other professionals on LinkedIn. Don’t be afraid to reach out to people in your field or to ask for introductions to potential employers.
    4. Use job search websites and resources: There are many online resources available to help you find job opportunities. Try reaching out to recruitment agencies or headhunters who specialize in your field.
    5. Consider temp or contract work: If you’re having difficulty finding a full-time job, consider looking for temporary or contract work in the meantime. This can be a great way to gain experience, build your network, and potentially land a permanent position in the future.
    6. Prepare for interviews: Once you start getting job interviews, it’s important to be prepared and to make a strong impression. Research the company and the role in advance, practice your answers to common interview questions, and dress appropriately for the occasion.
    7. Negotiate your salary and benefits: If you’re offered a job, don’t be afraid to negotiate. Consider your worth, communicate your value to the employer. Consider seeking guidance from a career coach or mentor on how to approach salary negotiations. My next post will also be most helpful!
    8. Make a smooth transition: If you’re making a career change, it’s important to be prepared for the challenges and adjustments that come with a new job. Take the time to learn about the company and its culture. Be open to feedback and new learning opportunities.
    9. Seek support: Changing careers can be a daunting process, and it’s important to have a support system in place to help you through it. Consider seeking guidance from a career coach or mentor, or connect with others who are also making a career transition.

    With these tips in mind, you’ll be well on your way to finding the right job and making a successful transition in the new year. Remember to stay positive and proactive, and don’t be afraid to ask for help or seek guidance when needed. Here’s to a successful and fulfilling year ahead!

    Next up, you have been offered the job, how do you negotiate salary?! You will want to come back in a few days, for crucial advise.

    Cheering You Onto Success
    Juan

     

    Maximize Your Potential In The New Year. Tips And Strategies

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    Welcome to the new year!

    As we turn the page on the previous year and look ahead to what’s to come, it’s natural to feel excited and motivated to make the most of the next 365 days. Whether you’re looking to set new goals, start a new hobby, or make positive changes in your life, there are plenty of ways to make the most of the new year.

    Here are some tips for making the most of the new year:

    • Set achievable goals: One of the most common New Year’s resolutions is to set goals for the year ahead. Whether you want to lose weight, save money, or learn a new skill, it’s important to set goals that are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART). This will help you stay on track and make progress towards your goals.
    • Create a plan: Once you’ve identified your goals, it’s important to create a plan for achieving them. This might involve setting smaller, achievable milestones, creating a budget, or finding a support system to help you stay motivated.
    • Get organized: Whether it’s your closet, your desk, or your schedule, taking the time to get organized can help you feel more in control and better able to manage your time and resources.
    • Prioritize self-care: Taking care of yourself is crucial for your overall well-being. Make sure to carve out time for activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with loved ones. On Christmas Day, I started  ambientmusiclogy  a You Tube Channel to help you relax and meditate. Subscribe for new content each week.
    • Learn something new: Whether it’s a new language, hobby, new skill, learning something new can be a great way to keep your mind sharp and stay engaged in the world around you.
    • Volunteer or give back: Giving back to your community or to a cause you care about can be a rewarding and meaningful. Look for opportunities to volunteer or get involved in a charitable organization that aligns with your values.
    • Explore new places: Travel can be a great way to broaden your horizons and have new experiences. Whether you’re taking a weekend getaway or a longer trip, make a point to visit somewhere new and explore all it has to offer.
    • Surround yourself with positive influences: Your social network can have a big impact on your well-being and happiness. Stay close to people who support and inspire you. Spend less time with those who drain your energy.
    • Practice gratitude: Focusing on the things you are grateful for can help you cultivate a positive outlook and find joy in the everyday. Keep a gratitude journal or share your blessings with friends and family.
    • Reflect on your progress: As you make your way through the year, it’s important to take the time to reflect on your progress and adjust your goals as needed. Celebrate your accomplishments and don’t be too hard on yourself if you fall short of your goals. Remember that growth and progress often come in small steps, and that it’s important to be kind to yourself along the way.

    With these tips in mind, you are well on your way to making the most of the new year. Here’s to a happy, healthy, and fulfilling year ahead!

    What are your thoughts on these tips? Will you be implementing any or all of the strategies? Sound off below.

    Every day is a new chapter:)

    To Your Success,
    Juan 

      A Message From The Past: A Letter To My Future Self

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      Have you ever written a letter to yourself at the start of a New Year? Better yet, have you ever shared it with a total stranger? No? Me either. Until now. Feel free to share snippets from your own letter below to inspire others

      Dear Future Me,

      As I sit here on the first day of the new year, I am so darn excited about all the possibilities the next 365 days hold. I don’t know exactly what they are, and frankly, I don’t need to. There are no growth opportunities in knowing! I do, however, have a few hopes and aspirations that I’d like to share with you.

      First and foremost, I hope that this time next year,  you are incredibly happy and healthy, and you have found a sense of balance and contentment in your life,  surrounded by people who love and support you.

      We are just getting started here. When it comes to career, I hope you have found a job or profession that you are passionate about. One that allows you to make a positive impact in the world. You have taken the time to learn new skills and challenge yourself. You have found a way to achieve your goals and dreams. As a matter of fact  by this time next year, you should no longer working for anyone else.

      You have carved out more time to pursue your hobbies and interests. Your wanderlust nature has been fed and watered in new and distant lands. You have topped the six countries you visited in 2022

      One of my biggest aspirations for the year ahead is to become more physically fit and healthy. I know this will require discipline and commitment, but I am determined to make it a priority. You planned to join a new gym, as the old one just wasn’t cutting it. You once loved spinning. This time next year, you have taken more classes than you can remember, and your new body is hard evidence.  

      Another goal is to be more present and mindful in my daily life. I want to make a conscious effort to be more present with my loved ones, to enjoy each moment as it comes, and to live in the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. I hope that you have found a way to cultivate this mindset and that it brings you greater happiness and contentment. You new venture ambientmusiclogy has helped so many people take necessary time  to practice meditation,  self care and mindfulness. Your new channel will grow and explode beyond your wildest dreams.

      You are single by choice. However, if your person comes along, It should be a love unlike any other, because you deserve it. If you are still single, bear in mind, the greatest love story is the one you have with yourself. 

      Finally, I hope that you have found a way to give back and make a positive impact in the world. Whether it’s through volunteering, donating to a cause you believe in, or simply being kind and compassionate towards others, I hope that you have found a way to make a difference in the lives of those around you.

      I know that the road ahead will not always be easy, but I believe in you and I know that you have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way. Here’s to an amazing year ahead!

      Finally, I hope that you have learned to be kind to yourself and to others, and that you have found a way to live a fulfilling and meaningful life.

      HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!

      Sincerely, 
      Juan W

      Overcoming Post Holiday Bues

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      The holidays are often a whirlwind of activity and emotion involving a busy schedule of shopping, school programs and get-togethers with friends and family. If you experience an emotional disappointment when the holidays pass, there are many things you can do to lift your mood and make it through the emotional let-down after the holidays. Taking some quality time for yourself during this period can lighten your mood immensely and ignite your excitement about the year ahead.

      These strategies will boost your spirits and get your New Year off to a great start:

      1. Re-connect with an old friend. There’s something so wonderful about making that call you’ve wanted to make. Hearing your friend’s voice again will bring great joy to your heart. It might be a friend from the old neighborhood, a former college roommate or a past co-worker you were once great friends with.
      2. Take advantage of the extra time you now have for yourself. Since the holiday hullabaloo is over, you have some time to reflect. What do you like about your life? What would you like to change?
      3. Think about small goals you’d like to accomplish. Do you want to finally get that hall closet cleaned out? Maybe you can now complete that special project your boss has wanted you to do.

      It’s a good time to make a list of all those little tasks you want to get done. Having the list will help you concentrate on your goals. Plus, it’s wonderful to draw a line through an achieved goal.

      1. Focus on you for a change. Now is the time to hone in on personal desires and goals. Perhaps you want to exercise more or spend more quality time with your children. Ponder how you might go about making the changes you seek. Think of taking little steps toward your big goals.
      2. Pursue an interest. We’ve all got those interests we hope to “get to” someday. Since you’ve got some down time now, why not go for it? Delve in to that subject you’ve been curious about or start the photography class you’ve longed to take.

      If you’re not sure what you’re interested in, do some research. Visit your local library, browse some magazines or look in the newspaper. You’ll most likely find a couple of topics or activities you’d like to learn more about.

      1. Have a dinner party. You’ll have plenty of time to plan and prepare for this event with people you really care about. You’ll enjoy yourself and your mood will lift.
      2. Renew and refresh your surroundings. Do you feel like re-arranging the furniture in a room or two? Maybe you want to paint the walls or make new curtains. Re-decorating your surroundings is a wonderful way to go in to a new year and banish the holiday blues at the same time.

      Re-focusing on your surroundings and thinking about any changes you want to make will help you de-focus from the doldrums. Taking some quality time for yourself during this period can lighten your mood immensely and ignite your excitement about the year ahead.

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      HAPPY NEW YEAR!

      To Your Success,
      Juan

      Returning The Gift of Holiday Weight Hain

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      Returning the gift of holiday weight gain can be a true challenge. This is why it’s important to avoid (if you can) getting a holiday weight package in the first place! There’s no benefit to approaching the New Year with a lot of extra weight that you have to lug around all year.

      However, if you do gain a little weight, it’s a good idea to know and understand the measures that you can take to eliminate those extra pounds, before they become a problem. You can learn all about returning the gift of holiday weight gain in the tips below

      Get Moving
      One of the best ways that you can maintain your current weight through the holidays, or shed those extra pounds from your holiday blessing, is to exercise! You should strive to get at least four hours of exercise weekly. This may sound like a lot, but there are many exciting physical activities that will enable you to lose those unwanted pounds.

      You can take a walk around the block to savor one last look at those Christmas decorations, go swimming in an indoor heated pool, or warm up in an aerobics or dance class. Go up and down the stairs a few times. When you’re done, your heart will surely be pumping! Learn some basic yoga moves and start or end your day with some deep stretching and relaxation.

      Make Healthy Food Choices
      During the holidays, fresh fruit assortments are a big hit and make eating healthy much easier. A good goal would be to eat five servings of fruits every day. When you snack on fruit, you’ll avoid the urge to sink your teeth into that hot apple pie and those other tempting desserts that tend to line tables and countertops when the holidays roll around.

      In addition to fruits assortments, vegetable trays are a great, healthy choice as well.
      With fresh fruits and vegetables, not only will you be able to eat plenty of foods that taste great, but you’ll also get your daily dose of essential nutrients and vitamins that assist in the many functions of the body.

      It would be unreasonable to expect you to avoid all of the delightful foods that tempt you during the holidays. In fact, you shouldn’t deprive yourself at all! The key is to enjoy these sweet desserts in moderation. Fill up on the healthy fruits and vegetables first and then ask for a small serving of pie. You’ll get a sweet taste without the desire to devour the entire pie.

      Try to limit yourself to just one treat a day. Setting limits will allow you to enjoy all those
      seasonal foods that you love without causing holiday weight gain. Share your cookies and treats with those at your office, church, or homeless shelter. If the sweets tempt you too much at home, share them with others.

      Party Etiquette
      Prepare yourself for social gatherings, family dinners, and festive holiday parties. The foods and beverages that you find at these parties are generally loaded with fat and other unhealthy ingredients. Eat a healthy meal before going to holiday parties. If you’re not hungry, you’ll indulge in fewer unhealthy foods that can add pounds. 

      Focus on enjoying the company rather than on the food. Engaging in conversation will allow you to forget (momentarily!) about the food buffet. During the holidays we all want to indulge in traditional holiday treats. Being conscious of portion control will help you avoid gaining a significant amount of weight this holiday season.

      Returning the gift of holiday weight gain is much easier when it does not involve too many pounds. Using these tips will keep the weight gain to a minimum and help you to shed those few extra pounds that do materialize.

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      To Your Success,
      Juan