A Parents Guide To Disciplining a Child With ADHD



Positive parenting has helped many families to achieve greater harmony, and this approach may be especially important for parents raising a child with ADHD. A recent study confirms that cutting back on yelling and spanking can lead tobiological changes that make it easier for a child to regulate their emotions and behavior. 

Researchers at Ohio State University studied family relations among preschool
children with ADHD and their parents. They found that parents who received as little
as 10 to 20 weeks of coaching showed significant improvement in positive parenting
skills. As harsh interactions decreased, their children demonstrated less abnormal heart
activity and greater impulse control. ADHD is challenging, but you can learn to discipline more effectively.

Consider these ideas that will help you to create a calmer and happier home life for you and your child.

Encouraging Positive Behavior:
Prevention is more effective than discipline. Create conditions that make it easier for your child to use their strengths and follow house rules.

  1. Understand ADHD. Your child may be highly creative and energetic. On the
    other hand, they probably struggle with some things like listening attentively
    and planning ahead. Consider joining support groups if you need to
  1. Enjoy one-on-one time. Your child is less likely to act out if they feel secure and
    loved. Try to arrange at least one-half hour a day when you do something
    pleasant together. 
  2. Offer rewards. Give your child an extra incentive to comply with your
    expectations. Offer praise or small gifts when they complete their homework
    and cooperate with their siblings. If they have trouble waiting a week or more
    to get their prize, let them earn points throughout the day.

      4. Be specific. Make it easier for your child to do what you want by spelling out
           each step involved. Instead of asking them to clean their room, ask them to pick
           their toys up off the floor and put their clothes in a laundry hamper.

  1. Use visuals and sounds. Many children with ADHD understand images and
    sounds better than words. Clarify your instructions with other cues. Set a timer
    that will buzz when homework time is up. Hang a poster in the bathroom with
    pictures of a child brushing their teeth and putting on pajamas.

Maintaining Effective Discipline:
Of course, there will sometimes be lapses. Be prepared to discipline in a way that
works better than nagging or criticizing.

  1. Focus on learning. Discipline means training rather than punishment. When
    your child slips up, show them what they need to do in order to succeed the
    next time.
  2. Limit time outs. Sitting completely still may be overwhelming for some children
    with ADHD. If you use time outs, keep them brief, and consider giving them credit if they manage to keep their mouths shut.
  1. Establish priorities. Trying to resolve too many issues at once can backfire.
    Deal with one subject at a time. Give your child a chance to fix one situation
    before you tackle the next.

  2. Stay calm. Children with ADHD may be even more sensitive than the average
    child when it comes to being influenced by a parent’s mood. If you can remain
    composed even when your child hits a classmate or keeps losing their glasses,
    you’ll be in a better position to work together towards lasting solutions.

Parenting a child with ADHD is similar to parenting any child, but it usually requires
more effort and patience. You and your child can have a loving relationship if you
believe in their abilities and understand their needs. Stay positive and reach out for the support you need.

Which of these strategies have worked for you in the past? Which ones will you now be implementing? As always, please consult with your family physician, in this case a Pediatrician for advice and guidance suited to your unique circumstances.

Until the best post,

Best,
Juan